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Bagaimana Saudara tahu Saudara telah Jatuh Cinta part four � Dawson McAllister 

 

“Saya tahu saya membina hubungan cinta sesuai dengan kehendak Allah apabila… pasangan saya adalah seorang Kristen yg rohaninya bertumbuh”

Bagian teka teki lainnya adalah: kita hrs berpacaran dg orang Kristen yg mengikuti teladan Allah dalam kehidupan sehari-hari, dan yg kerinduannya untuk semakin bertumbuh menyerupai Yesus Kristus. Pasangan hidup kita harus seseorang yg bertumbuh dalam Kristus, takut akan Allah, sehingga:

  1. bisa mengasihi kita dengan cara Allah
  2. memiliki penguasaan diri 2 Tim 2:22.
  3. membuat kita memusatkana perhatian pada Allah. Pengkotbah 4:9-10a

Carilah pasangan hidup yg mengikuti teladan Kristus/pelaku Firman Yak 1:22, supaya:

  1. standarnya sama
  2. prioritas utamanya sama, yaitu mengenal Dia
  3. tidak penuh kecurigaan.

 

Bagaimana dg Saudara?

Bagaimana kondisi rohani saudara sendiri? Hidup di dalam Kristus tidak muda, ada bermacam-macam godaan dan beberapa kali kita gagal. Sekarang kita lihat hal-hal apa yg seharusnya kita pikirkan. Baca Filipi 4:8. Salah satu cara menentukan pilihan yg benar ttg pacar saudara adalah dg mengujinya dg Fil 4:8.

Berpikir yg baik berarti memusatkan perhatian kita pada hal2 yg membangun dan sehat.

Berpikir yg benar berarti membandingkan segala yg kita lihat dg cara Allah.

Berpikir yg adil berarti memutuskan utk selalu melakukan yg benar, berapapun harganya.

Berpikir yg suci berarti memperhatikan reputasi org lain lebih dari diri kit a sendiri.

Inilah bukti bahwa Kristus menjadi pusat kendali hdp kita.  Pikiran dg cepat dapat berubah menjadi tindakan. 

 

Apakah dia benar-benar jodoh saya?

Jawablah dg jujur. Jangan mengharapkan kesempurnaan, tetapi Allah ingin saudara menetapkan suatu standar, dan pegang standar itu.

  • Apakah calon pacar saya mendengar saya dan menghargai cara pandang saya akan sesuatu?
  • Apakah calon pacar saya mengharapkan hal-hal yg tidak wajar dari saya?
  • Apakah calon pacar saya baik terhadap saya dan peka terhadap perasaan saya?
  • Apakah calon pacar saya mempengaruhi saya utk hdp kudus?
  • Bagaimana hubungan calon pacar saya dg orang tuanya?
  • Apakah calon pacar saya mempunyai keinginan utk lbh mengenal Allah?
  • Pernahkah calon pacar saya berbicara dg saya mengenai masalah-masalah rohani?
  • Apakah calon pacar saya pernah bercerita bagaimana dia ingin saya masuk dlm rencana Allah?

Carilah pacar yg serius ttg hubungannya dg Kristus. Ketika saudara menemukannya, saudara telah maju selangkah dlm menerima kasih yg sejati dari Allah.

 

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